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‘Singles Talk’: Apostle Suleman Itemizes Three of Eight Kinds of Love

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Apostle Johnson Suleman

 

There are so many demands when the topic is love. Many often think of love just in terms of romance. But God’s servant, Apostle Johnson Suleman, says love between friends with no strings attached can be thought of as real love, and they can be just as powerful. Itemizing three of eight different concepts of love that exist, Apostle Suleman helps the singles understand what kind of love that should be made important.

 

 

Of the eight kinds of love, the famous preacher notes that people are familiar with only three. These eight are; Storage, Ludus, Pragma, Mania, Philautia, Eros, Philia, and Agape. But people only know Eros, which is ‘sexual attraction’, Philia, which is ‘friendship’, and Agape, which is ‘general love’.

 

 

Suleman explains one particular type of love believed to be dangerous among the eight because it makes people lose control. He warns that it is a very physical form of love, which lasts but briefly and dissolves quickly because it is emotionally involved.

 

 

“Let me explain the three that you’re familiar with. Eros is when you see someone, he or she looks very attractive to you and you want to be with the person. This is what a lot of people think is love. This is what happens when a young man sees a girl and he wants to sleep with her. It is not love. Real love is commitment. Eros love is what produces unwanted children. Eros love is what you feel and can’t sleep at night and say you can’t stop thinking of a girl. When you begin to say oh I will do anything for you, I will give you anything you want, it is Eros in action. What we have been watching in movies; the ideas that have been sold to us that love is, it is Eros.”

 

“Philia is friendship. Many want Philia but they are not ready to move to it. It is Philia love when you get to meet a lady and tell her that oh, I love you and she says ‘let’s get to know each other, let’s do friendship’. There are some young men, especially those that are not born-again; if you’re a young lady and a young man is reaching out to you and saying ‘ ah, look at you, see how beautiful you are, I couldn’t hold myself’; stop him right there. You’re human and if you allow that thing to get into your system, you will flow along. Tell him, ‘don’t compliment me again, let’s avoid that conversation’. It should be good morning, good night. Those kinds of talks are nothing; no content, no depth. You don’t marry like that.  There should be conversation outside the complement. Stop liking flattery, don’t be a flat tyre. If you invite a man to tell you nice things, you will always be a victim of life.”

 

“The nice things a man should tell you are things that would build your life. This is where many people have been trapped. They cannot go into friendship.  You need friendship. You should have the conversation; how was your night, how was your day. This is what some people call a bestie. Bestie is purely friendship, there’s nothing attached. It is not even right if you’re in a relationship to have another person as a bestie. But because the guy; all he sees is Eros. This is why some girls will be in a relationship and will still be talking to other guys. Eros is all they are.”

 

 

 

“Women are emotional-oriented. Men are logical. So, the best kind of love is Agape; God’s kind of love. Those who are not born again start from Eros, they can never get to Agape. But those who are born again start from Agape, then they get to Philia and finally they get to Eros. Agape is God’s kind of love. He’s my brother, she’s my sister kind of love. You’re giving a girl money for her school fees is not because there’s something you want in return; it is not conditional; you’re giving her because she’s your sister in Christ. You’re paying her rent because she’s your sister in Christ. It is not an investment. So, you start from God’s kind of love, and if you want to have a relationship with her, you move to Philia love. And when you get married, obviously it will get to Eros. But if you allow Eros to control your feelings, you can never get to Agape.”

 

 

 

In conclusion, Apostle Suleman admonishes singles to be wary of physical attraction because it is not a necessary part of love. He says both Philia and Agape love are powerful, they are a spiritual kind of love, involving enormous empathy, with the concepts of charity and sacrifice within Agape in particular, making it the highest form of love for people in Christ.

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Pyrates March with Ogun State First Lady and Women Affairs Commissioner against Gender Violence

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The National Association of Seadogs’ Pyrates Confraternity, Abeokuta chapter, Ogun State, in collaboration with the Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development, Ogun State, commemorated the World Human Rights Day 2024 with a rally from the center of Abeokuta the capital city of the state to the Governor’s office and ended the procession at the state house of Assembly.


The Association, known for its humanistic ideals and advocacy for justice and equity, marked Human Rights Day on December 10, 2024. The Ogun State Chapter of the National Association of Seadogs’ Pyrates Confraternity visited the Speaker and urged the assembly to expedite the passage of laws that promote peace, human rights, and an end to gender-based violence in Ogun State.

The Capoon of Ash Montana Deck, Peter Oluwatoyin Adekunle, commended the Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Development, Hon. Motunrayo Adijat Adeleye, for establishing a rehabilitation center. This center provides support for survivors of sexual and gender-based violence and introduces a free toll line : 08000000666 and 08000000555 to report abuse and offenders.

Additionally, the Capoon highlighted various forms of gender-based violence, including threats and coercion. The First Lady, Mrs. Bamidele Abiodun, educated attendees IN THE UNFPA ACKNOWLEDGED PROGRAM on forms of gender-based violence, such as:

– Sexual assault
– Rape
– Attempted rape
– Trafficking
– Prostitution
– Sexual harassment
– Manipulation within the home, workplace, or school
– Domestic violence
– Controlling behavior in intimate relationships
– Battery
– Confinement
– Emotional abuse
– Pornography
– Harmful traditional practices
– Early/forced marriage
– Widow ceremonies
– Punishment for defying cultural norms
– Denial of education, food, and clothing to girls/women

The Speaker, Hon. Oludaisi Olusegun Elemide, pledged to uphold his promise to pass laws protecting human rights.

*The Pyrates Confraternity has a long history of advocating for human rights and social justice, dating back to its founding in 1952 by seven students at the University College, Ibadan, including the renowned Professor Wole Soyinka.*

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ZENITH BANK KICKS OFF YULETIDE SEASON WITH SPECTACULAR AJOSE ADEOGUN STREET LIGHT-UP

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In keeping with its acclaimed annual tradition, Zenith Bank once again set the stage for the Yuletide season with the Light-Up of Ajose Adeogun Street and Roundabout, Victoria Island, Lagos on Saturday, 23 November 2024. The Light-Up ceremony was performed by the Group Managing Director/Chief Executive of Zenith Bank Plc, Dame (Dr.) AdaoraUmeoji, OON.

The Light-Up ceremony is a Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) initiative of Zenith Bank. Now in its 18th year, the beautiful Christmas decoration, which transforms the entire stretch of Ajose Adeogun Street (home to Zenith Bank’s Corporate Headquarters) and Roundabout into a breathtaking yuletide wonderland, has come to be recognized as an iconic tourist attraction, bringing visitors from far and wide who visit with their families and friends to take pictures and enjoy the ambience of the street.

Speaking during the ceremony, Dame (Dr.) AdaoraUmeoji said “Over the years, Zenith Bank has hosted this spectacular event, transforming the entire Ajose Adeogun Street into a breathtaking yuletide wonderland. Our beautiful and elaborate Christmas decorations have become a centre of attraction and shared on social media platforms globally. As we light up the street tonight, we celebrate the essence of Christmas and Zenith Bank’s unparalleled CSR. Our customers will always be at the centre of all that we do in Zenith Bank.” She urged everyone to imbibe the message and spirit of Christmas which is about love, kindness, generosity and respect for humanity, and thanked the Lagos State Government for creating an enabling environment for the initiative.

She also praised the efforts of Quantum Markets, who have been responsible for the annual decorations, for their expertise and creativity in putting together the lovely decorations. In her words, “I want to thank the management of Quantum Markets for all the beautiful, creative and innovative ideas they keep coming up with. Quantum Markets always make it bigger and better every year, and we are always looking forward toit.”

Zenith Bank remains committed to furthering the economic, cultural and social development of its host communities. The bank’s sustainability and CSR initiatives are hinged on the belief that today’s business performance is not all about the financial numbers – the bank believes that an institution’s social investments, contributions to inclusive economic growth and development as well as improvements in the condition of the physical environment, all constitute a balanced scorecard.

As a testament to its contributions and social investments in its host communities and the society at large, the bank was recognised as the “Most Sustainable Bank, Nigeria” in the 2023 and 2024 International Banker Banking Awards and “Most Responsible Organization in Africa” at the Sustainability, Enterprise, and Responsibility (SERAS) Awards 2021.

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Izuchukwu Christian Ahuchaogu Wins Media Personality of the Year at TM News Awards 2024

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Izuchukwu Christian Ahuchaogu, the dynamic publisher of Truetells Nigeria, has been awarded the prestigious title of Media Personality of the Year at the TM News Awards 2024. The ceremony, held at Lagos Oriental Hotel in Lagos, celebrated the outstanding contributions of media professionals across the nation.

Ahuchaogu, known for his innovative approach to journalism and commitment to truth-telling, has significantly impacted the Nigerian media landscape. Under his leadership, Truetells Nigeria has become a trusted source of news, focusing on integrity, accuracy, and insightful reporting.

In his acceptance speech, Ahuchaogu expressed gratitude to his team and readers. “This award is not just for me, but for everyone at Truetells Nigeria who works tirelessly to uphold the values of honest journalism. We are dedicated to telling the stories that matter and serving the public with transparency,” he said.

The TM News Awards, an annual event that honors excellence in journalism, attracted numerous prominent figures from the media industry, government officials, and celebrities. This year’s event highlighted the crucial role of the press in fostering democracy and accountability in Nigeria.

Ahuchaogu’s recognition as Media Personality of the Year comes at a time when the media faces various challenges, including misinformation and censorship. His unwavering commitment to ethical journalism is seen as a beacon of hope for aspiring journalists and media practitioners across the country.

As Truetells Nigeria continues to grow, Ahuchaogu aims to expand its reach and influence, leveraging digital platforms to engage a broader audience and promote informed discourse. The award not only reinforces his status in the media community but also inspires a new generation of journalists in Nigeria.

The TM News Awards 2024 served as a reminder of the vital role media plays in society and the importance of celebrating those who strive to make a difference through their work.

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